Talking to Your Child's Pediatrician

Talking to Your Child's Pediatrician

Your child’s pediatrician is often the first person you will call if you think your child has a mental health issue.

Your child’s pediatrician is the main medical doctor you take your child to for healthcare. Pediatricians help to ensure that your child is healthy by providing advice and care around growth and development, illnesses, immunizations, nutrition, injuries, and physical fitness. Pediatricians will also monitor your child’s behavior and emotions, including issues around their social and family life, schooling, and learning abilities.

The guide uses the term “pediatrician” to refer to a child’s primary healthcare provider. This is true for most children. However, for some children, their primary healthcare provider may be a family practice doctor. The information provided about pediatricians in this section and throughout the guide applies to family practice doctors as well.

Tip

Follow your instincts. If you know in your heart something is wrong, don’t take “he’ll be fine” from anyone. If you're not comfortable with a mental healthcare provider, diagnosis, or treatment, get second (or third or fourth . . .) opinion. Find someone who will listen to you.

The Role of Pediatricians in the Mental Healthcare System

This section outlines the role of pediatricians in the mental healthcare system, including how they evaluate your child’s mental health and what services they offer, and provides resources for helping you find a pediatrician. The section also explains the limitations of pediatricians when it comes to mental healthcare for your child and the importance of getting referrals to mental health specialists.

Types of Professionals

Your child’s pediatrician provides general medical care and focuses on your child’s overall health. There are also pediatricians who have additional training in child development called developmental behavioral pediatricians. 

Other medical doctors for children are specialists. Specialists focus on certain areas of the body, such as the brain, hearing, speech, or digestive system. Pediatricians refer children to specialists if they have specific conditions that require more focused evaluations and treatments. For example, a pediatrician may refer a child to a gastroenterologist if he or she has a feeding problem.

Learn more about mental health specialists

Evaluations

Pediatricians use different methods to evaluate your child’s mental health. Your child’s pediatrician may ask you or your child questions about their behavior and emotions to ensure that your child is reaching typical development milestones and is in overall good health. Sometimes the pediatrician will ask about your child’s interactions with family and friends or your child’s behavior at school to find out if there are any warning signs of mental health issues. The pediatrician may use screening checklists or forms with questions. These tests help to suggest or rule out possible mental health issues. The pediatrician can rule out medical conditions that sometimes have similar symptoms to mental health issues. If the pediatrician believes your child may have a mental health issue, the pediatrician will refer you to a mental health specialist for an evaluation.

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Services Offered

Some pediatricians evaluate and diagnose mental illnesses and can prescribe medications to treat them. However, most pediatricians are not trained to be the primary source for your child’s mental healthcare. After initially screening your child, most pediatricians will refer you to mental health specialists or community programs for evaluation, diagnosis, support, and treatment.

Learn more about mental health specialists, community programs, and other parts of the mental healthcare system

How Pediatricians Work Within the Mental Healthcare System

Your child’s pediatrician plays an ongoing role in your child’s mental healthcare. They can work with your child’s mental health specialists, the school system, and community programs to ensure that your child’s care and environment support overall health. If your child’s mental health specialist prescribes medication, your child’s pediatrician can make sure it does not interact with other medications your child may take for physical conditions. Mental health issues can also affect a child’s physical health. For example, a child who is depressed or anxious may lose or gain weight, have physical symptoms (headaches or stomachaches), or be losing sleep. Pediatricians can monitor these risks and treat physical conditions if needed.

Limitations

Although some pediatricians are well trained in mental health issues, some are less familiar with mental health diagnoses or treatment. Some pediatricians may not have a wide range of knowledge about available mental health specialists or programs for referral. Also, pediatricians usually have limited time during yearly appointments to fully evaluate children’s mental health issues. Despite these limitations, a pediatrician is an important first point of contact with the mental healthcare system because of their familiarity with your child and your child’s overall medical care. However, because of these limitations, it is important for parents to get referrals for mental health evaluations and treatment.