Helping Your Child Transition to Adulthood

Helping Your Child Transition to Adulthood

The word “transition” means to make a change or a move from one place to another.

A big transition for children happens when they are ready to leave school and enter adulthood. This transition may include attending a college, university or training program, entering the workforce, living independently, or all the above.

As a parent, it is important to plan early for this transition. This includes working together with your child to set goals and plan for:

  • Healthcare needs, including mental healthcare needs
  • Education beyond high school
  • Work
  • Moving out of home
  • Participating in the community

Begin Transition Planning

You should begin to plan for your child’s future by age 14. During this time it is important to work closely with your child and your child’s pediatrician, mental health specialists, and school professionals. Talk to them about your child’s options after high school. They will help you and your child create a plan that will help prepare him or her to meet long-term goals. Your child should be included in the process to the extent they are able.

Planning for Your Child's Healthcare Needs

Planning for your child’s healthcare needs as they transition to adulthood usually includes moving their care from a pediatrician to an adult primary care provider.

Making this change can help make sure that your child continues to receive the care your child needs as they get older. To get this process started:

  • Talk to your child’s pediatrician. Your child’s pediatrician can refer you to an adult primary care provider and adult mental health specialists who are knowledgeable about your child’s mental health issue.
  • Set up times for you and your child to meet their new providers and specialists. This will give everyone a chance to get to know one another before a mental healthcare issue arises.

When helping your child plan for their healthcare needs as an adult, it is important to think about options for proper health insurance. Depending on their coverage, eligibility may need to be re-evaluated at age 18.

Planning for Your Child's Education After High School

There are many options for education after high school that your child may be interested in. Colleges, universities, and training programs may be among those your child explores. To help your child find the program that is right for them:

  • Meet with your child’s school counselor. They can help you and your teen identify educational programs that may be of interest.
  • Once they find a program of interest, speak with someone in the program’s Office of Disability Services to find out what disability support services the program offers. Encourage your child to choose a program that provides the level of support that will best meet their needs. Remember to ask each program what proof of disability they require in order for your child to qualify for services.

Planning for Your Child's Work

Children with mental health issues can choose from many different jobs and careers. They can choose to work with or without support. The challenge is to help your child find a job where their skills and interests match the needs of the employer.