Some of the most important people in your child’s life are their friends. Friendships are an important aspect of a child’s development and can be very rewarding. These relationships should be encouraged so that your child grows up with a network of peers who support them. 

However, there are instances where peer relationships can have a negative impact on a child’s development. Bullying is one such instance. Unfortunately, bullying is a common occurrence during the school-age years.

What Is Bullying?

Bullying is a way for one child to intimidate or harass another. Bullying can be physical or verbal. Bullying can also occur through the internet.

How Can Bullying Affect Children?

If a child is bullied, it can affect their social and emotional development to varying degrees. Sometimes it can affect a child’s schoolwork.

Why Do Children Bully Other Children?

Most children who are bullies need to feel a sense of control or domination over others. Bullying can be a way for children to deal with depression, anger, or events happening in school or at home. In some cases these children have been victims of abuse or have been bullied by other children.

What Should You Do If You Suspect Your Child Is Being Bullied

The most important thing you can do is to give your child opportunities to talk to you openly and honestly about what is going on. Reassure your child that what is going on is not their fault and that telling you about the situation was the right thing to do. Talk to your child about what they have already tried, what has worked and what has not, and what they think should be done.

In addition, you should seek help from your child’s school. Most of the time, bullying occurs in school and it is important that the school is aware of the problem. Most Rhode Island schools have a bullying policy. Find out what the policy is at your child’s school and what resources are available to help you and your child deal with the problem.

What Should You Do If You Suspect Your Child Is Bullying Others?

It is possible that a child who is bullying others may begin to have social, emotional, legal, or school problems. Seeking help for your child can help uncover the reason for bullying others and help them stop the behavior.