Building Your Child's Self-Esteem

Building Your Child's Self-Esteem

Children with healthy self-esteem are likely to have better relationships and to do well in school. As a parent, you have an incredible amount of influence over your child’s level of self-esteem. 

Helpful Tips to Building Self-Esteem

The following are some helpful tips to develop positive self-esteem in your child.

  • Have realistic expectations of your child. If your child is able to achieve what you expect, then they will feel successful.
  • Make your child feel special and appreciated. Set aside time each week for you and your child to spend alone together.
  • Emphasize your child’s strengths. Make a list of your child’s strengths and use different opportunities to point out their abilities. For example, if your child is a good artist, display their artwork.
  • Let your child help you with activities, such as cooking, chores, or wrapping presents for others. This is a great opportunity to demonstrate that they are helpful and can help others. It is also a nice time to point out their strengths!
  • Try to focus on the positive behaviors and acknowledge them. Avoid negative comments. Instead, frame feedback in a
    positive way.
  • Try not to compare siblings. Instead, highlight the strengths of each child equally.
  • Help your child develop problem-solving skills. As a child becomes better at finding solutions to problems, their confidence increases.